Advice

A few things I've learned along the way.

  • Nothing is ever as good or bad as it seems.
  • Get in great shape.
  • Drink clean water — there's nothing you'll consume more of in a lifetime.
  • Get a good mattress and toothbrush. You use them every day.
  • Eat real food. If your grandma wouldn't know what it is, don't eat it.
  • Avoid plastic as much as possible.
  • Sauna — do it as often as possible.
  • Have zero tolerance for fake friends.
  • Strong opinions, loosely held. Changing your mind when information changes makes you a high-rung thinker, not a low-rung thinker.
  • Never trust anyone on the far right or the far left.
  • Staying angry is a waste of energy.
  • Use your phone less.
  • Be spontaneous.
  • Say yes to strangers.
  • Don't get offended easily.
  • Comfort isn't always a good thing. Discomfort isn't always a bad thing.
  • Tip well.
  • Be kind to service people.
  • Be a regular at a least one restaurant.
  • You'll open more doors smiling than yelling.
  • If you're in your own head, you're in enemy territory.
  • Be curious, not judgmental.
  • At work, how you manage down is a better testament to your character than how you manage up.
  • Don't overanalyze health. If you're constantly worried about eating the cheesecake, it's worse for you than just eating the cheesecake.
  • Memento Mori. Remembering you'll be dead one day makes life less serious.
  • Study the universe. It will make you feel incredibly small and incredibly important at the time.
  • Not taking risk is a risk.
  • The grass is greener on the other side because it's fertilized with bullshit.
  • There will be liars and cheaters in life. Sometimes they'll win. In the long term, they always lose.
  • You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from.
  • Feeling like a victim is a perfectly disastrous way to go through life.
  • The vast majority of people in this world are good. We're hardwired to remember the bad ones. Don't let them ruin it for you.
  • Never trust a thought you have indoors.
  • Walk far and often.
  • Find a hobby — preferably one where you're outdoors and moving.
  • You can always tell someone to go to hell tomorrow.
  • The Serenity Prayer sums up life in a single verse.
  • Do 25 pushups every morning when you wake up.
  • Do the hardest thing in your day first, always.
  • Never put off something you can get done today.
  • Be hard on yourself, easy on others.
  • Think less, do more.
  • Always say hi to the pretty girl. The potential for love vastly outweighs any potential embarrassment.
  • If you have a why you can endure any how.
  • Always ask. "You miss 100% of the shots you never take" is a cliché for a reason.
  • Frame is the most important concept in life.
  • Emotional regulation is the second most important.
  • If you don't learn to discipline your emotions, your enemies will use them against you.
  • Don't pinch pennies in your 20s hoping to retire in your 50s. Live.
  • Don't drink in your 30s without a good reason to.
  • Avoid mentally ill people in relationships at all costs.
  • Discipline over dopamine is usually the right call.
  • Be truth-seeking above all else, even when the truth is difficult.
  • Don't blindly trust what you read. Most of it isn't true. This is 100% true if the story doesn't quote both sides.
  • On that point, be familiar with the Gell-Mann Amnesia Effect.
  • In every room you walk into, do the 2 C's: give someone a compliment, and find something in common.
  • Helping others is the most important thing you can do in life.
  • If you want to cheer yourself up, cheer someone else up.
  • The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose.
  • Thinking life should be fair is a childish expectation.
  • The answer is usually somewhere in the middle.
  • Almost all of life can be explained by incentives.
  • This too shall pass.
  • Everything works out, always.

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