Advice
A few things I've learned along the way.
- Nothing is ever as good or bad as it seems.
- Get in great shape.
- Drink clean water — there's nothing you'll consume more of in a lifetime.
- Get a good mattress and toothbrush. You use them every day.
- Eat real food. If your grandma wouldn't know what it is, don't eat it.
- Avoid plastic as much as possible.
- Sauna — do it as often as possible.
- Have zero tolerance for fake friends.
- Strong opinions, loosely held. Changing your mind when information changes makes you a high-rung thinker, not a low-rung thinker.
- Never trust anyone on the far right or the far left.
- Staying angry is a waste of energy.
- Use your phone less.
- Be spontaneous.
- Say yes to strangers.
- Don't get offended easily.
- Comfort isn't always a good thing. Discomfort isn't always a bad thing.
- Tip well.
- Be kind to service people.
- Be a regular at a least one restaurant.
- You'll open more doors smiling than yelling.
- If you're in your own head, you're in enemy territory.
- Be curious, not judgmental.
- At work, how you manage down is a better testament to your character than how you manage up.
- Don't overanalyze health. If you're constantly worried about eating the cheesecake, it's worse for you than just eating the cheesecake.
- Memento Mori. Remembering you'll be dead one day makes life less serious.
- Study the universe. It will make you feel incredibly small and incredibly important at the time.
- Not taking risk is a risk.
- The grass is greener on the other side because it's fertilized with bullshit.
- There will be liars and cheaters in life. Sometimes they'll win. In the long term, they always lose.
- You never know what worse luck your bad luck has saved you from.
- Feeling like a victim is a perfectly disastrous way to go through life.
- The vast majority of people in this world are good. We're hardwired to remember the bad ones. Don't let them ruin it for you.
- Never trust a thought you have indoors.
- Walk far and often.
- Find a hobby — preferably one where you're outdoors and moving.
- You can always tell someone to go to hell tomorrow.
- The Serenity Prayer sums up life in a single verse.
- Do 25 pushups every morning when you wake up.
- Do the hardest thing in your day first, always.
- Never put off something you can get done today.
- Be hard on yourself, easy on others.
- Think less, do more.
- Always say hi to the pretty girl. The potential for love vastly outweighs any potential embarrassment.
- If you have a why you can endure any how.
- Always ask. "You miss 100% of the shots you never take" is a cliché for a reason.
- Frame is the most important concept in life.
- Emotional regulation is the second most important.
- If you don't learn to discipline your emotions, your enemies will use them against you.
- Don't pinch pennies in your 20s hoping to retire in your 50s. Live.
- Don't drink in your 30s without a good reason to.
- Avoid mentally ill people in relationships at all costs.
- Discipline over dopamine is usually the right call.
- Be truth-seeking above all else, even when the truth is difficult.
- Don't blindly trust what you read. Most of it isn't true. This is 100% true if the story doesn't quote both sides.
- On that point, be familiar with the Gell-Mann Amnesia Effect.
- In every room you walk into, do the 2 C's: give someone a compliment, and find something in common.
- Helping others is the most important thing you can do in life.
- If you want to cheer yourself up, cheer someone else up.
- The purpose of life is to live a life of purpose.
- Thinking life should be fair is a childish expectation.
- The answer is usually somewhere in the middle.
- Almost all of life can be explained by incentives.
- This too shall pass.
- Everything works out, always.